My Objective

My objective is to show what I have learned and gone through. I share about life and TKOR business and parenting without my husband. My experience, it's not a common experience. It wasn’t while Grant was alive and it's not now that he suddenly is gone. 

I certainly hope it's not reality for many.  It's caused me to really look at my level of resiliency. It’s shown me what I am capable of as a human being. I’ve seen in a new profound way, what is a human experience. 

We go through life and we feel loss.  We go through life and we have traumas. We go through life and we have things that are so difficult. We think, I’m never gonna get through this. What are the ways we do it though? 

This really is my objective and mostly it's because I’m trying to figure it out myself.  I have been very private about going through this in general. It’s something you have to do alone even if you are supported by others. 

I’m dealing with the grief that I have had. There's moments where being private works really well, but there’s a lot of moments where being alone and trying to do it on your own does not work. I’m trying to open up to help more.

I’m expanding my ability to heal through this process. I’ve found that connecting with the emotion of humanity that lives in all of us regardless of our experiences is the next new level of where I am going with this.

I feel as each of us face the most difficult challenges of our lives, reaching out and not trying to do it alone is one of the most powerful things we can do. Challenges look different for all of us. Honoring and respecting that space to do it alone and with help, that’s my objective and my intention. 

I’m excited to hear your comments because they help me. This is part of my healing process after losing my husband. It’s the next step and I am a firm believer in following my heart in how it communicates to me. 

I’m always thinking, what’s the next step? Then I get to figure out what that step is. It’s what I am doing to heal. It’s what I’m doing for myself. It’s what I’m doing for my children. Have a great day and thank you!